It’s not all about the house.

Southfield Store

Southfield Store

When we went looking for land, we had a destination in mind. For years, we had been spending our weekends in Litchfield, Connecticut. Every Friday, we’d pack up the car in New York and drive a couple of hours north to an unparalleled piece of property just outside of town. To be exact, we rented a house on a 1,200 acre estate that was ours for the rambling. The only trouble was that we didn’t own it. For a long time, that didn’t matter to us. The owners were hardly ever there, and we had free run of one of the most spectacular places to live in New England. For various reasons, replicating this experience on our own was impossible. But two things were imperative as we began our search — enough land to spread out on and enough culture to keep us going on the weekends.

So here’s a sampler of what you’ll find within striking distance of our new home. The Southfield Store for meeting up with neighbors and a bite. Cafe Adam for fine and friendly dining. Butternut Mountain for a kitschy take on downhill skiing. Bear Mountain for leaving the rest of the world behind. The magical gardens at Ashintully. The Appalachian Trail for x-county traipsing. Tanglewood for classical day dreams. Club Helsinki for folk and blues. Yale Music School for summer lazing. The Stockbridge Bowl for sailing. The Route 7 Grill for smoking hot food. The porch of the Red Lion Inn for G&Ts in August. And that’s just for starters…

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Two to one.

housefrontandbackMy husband and I never wanted a big house. In fact, our whole plan had been to build something that would give us the weekend space we dreamed of while allowing us to keep our apartment in New York. Initially, we were a little depressed at having to walk away from our architect’s two-house vision for our property. But after we saw their revised plans, we realized not only that small really is better — but that small can always get bigger.

The front of the house is designed to take in a long view of forest and distant mountains through a bank of floor-to-ceiling windows.  On each side of the house, there will be a deck — one for me and my husband, and the other for our guests.  In between, there is a long stretch of great room and kitchen to walk through before you get to to the Master Bedroom and office. And upstairs, two lofty bedrooms and full bath for guests.  All this in less than 2,500 square feet of space.  Simply perfect!

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Doubletake.

House model

House model

My husband and I work in advertising — so like architects, we work with clients who give us a brief and a budget. Having already provided our architects with a brief and a budget for our house, we were both really looking forward to being on the other side of the table for once.

We arranged to meet with the architects at my husband’s office in New York. When they arrived, they set a large box down on the table. My husband and I waited expectantly. The wife began their presentation by saying that our project was the firm’s favorite. My husband squeezed my hand, smiling. “So what’s in the box?” he asked. “Your house,” they answered.

And with that, the architects removed the lid from the box and lifted out a three-dimensional model of our house — or houses I should say. We were awe struck. “Wow,” I said. “I’m amazed.” The architects beamed. “It’s great,” said my husband. We were looking at a large house and a small house — both with long sloping roofs and lots of glass. The large house was connected to the smaller house by a wooden deck. The design was not dissimilar to that of the Glide House — except that it was taller with a loft in the back. Read the rest of this entry »

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Designing minds.

Now that we’d decided to have an architect design our house, we had to find one. First, we went through the roster of architects we knew personally. One was an old boyfriend. One was the head of an architectural school down south. While either would have done a stellar job for us, we decided to follow the old adage to never do business with friends. Next, we asked our realtor who put us in touch with a local who sounded too traditional for what we wanted. Finally, we resorted to the internet.

Drafting toolFor several weeks, we scoured the online portfolios of architects in the Berkshires. Most of them seemed to be into designing McMansions masquerading as New England Salt Boxes. What we wanted was something that would fit in with the local architecture without being too conformist. After we’d narrowed down our options, my husband made a few calls. And after a couple of discussions, we settled on a husband-and-wife team from Williamstown, Massachusetts. Read the rest of this entry »

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To pre or not to pre…

romero4Prefab housing is all the rage right now. And Rocio Romero is right up there with the best of them. Before making a serious move in the prefab direction, my husband and I explored many other comparable options — including Wee House out of Minnesota (too hard to truck into our site), Dwell House (way over our budget), and Glide House (not hardy enough for the hard Massachusetts winters). Read the rest of this entry »

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Plans gone awry.

Our Site

Our Site

About a year ago, my husband and I were walking around our house site with a friend of ours who also happens to be a builder. We were talking about where to site the house — a post-and-beam style barn home we’d designed with the help of Yankee Barn — when the builder mentioned that we might have to think about taking out a lot more trees. “Why?” I asked, looking around at all the beautiful birches and towering pines that lined the edge of the acre we’d already cleared. “Because otherwise your house is going to cast a shadow over everything. Your entire yard will be dark.”

Huh. This was not something we had ever even thought about. So far, all of our attention had been on the interior of our house — the crisscross of roof beams overhead, the placement of the bedrooms, the open loft upstairs, the type of hardwood for the floors. In my imagination, the windows had always overlooked a yard dappled with light — certainly not a gloomy expanse of shadowy meadow. Read the rest of this entry »

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Well, well, well.

Umpachene Falls

Umpachene Falls

In the Berkshires, there is a lot of water. In fact, everywhere you look, there are lakes and rivers teeming with wildlife. So naturally, it never occurred to me or my husband that we might come up dry when it came to drillling our well. However, putting in our well turned out to be one of the most emotionally – and financially – draining experiences of our entire land-prepping saga. Mostly because we had no idea of the guesswork involved.

Massachusetts is renowned for its ledge, otherwise know as bedrock. In the old days, when farmers used creaky old hand drills to create wells, the very act of drilling created fissures in the bedrock. This is important, because the only way to get water flowing in a well drilled through bedrock is through cracks in the bedrock. However, today’s high-speed drills are often too efficient for the job. So instead of leaving tiny fissures in their wake, they virtually seal the walls of the well as they bore their way through the rock. Read the rest of this entry »

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The long and winding road.

In retrospect, my husband and I had no idea what we were getting into when we decided to build our own house. Neither one of us had ever taken on such a project, and both of us were clueless as to what was really involved. Ten acres? Fantastic. But where should the house go? What about water? Oh yeah, and we almost forgot about the electricity. Read the rest of this entry »

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Barn baby barn.

Our first barn plan

Once we had the land, my husband and I began to think about the kind of house we wanted to build. Three years of house hunting had definitely helped us refine our sensibilities. We envisioned a place that could provide the two of us with the privacy we relished, while accomodating weekend guests and visiting children. We also needed a design that could house an eclectic collection of furniture and art both inherited and bought, European and Asian, yard-sale kitsch and cosmopolitan. After much deliberation, we decided to visit the headquarters of Yankee Barn in New Hampshire. We were very impressed with the quality of the model home they showed us, and later took them up on an offer to stay overnight at just completed Yankee Barn in Brandywine, Pennsylvania. After that weekend trip to Pennsylvania, we decided that a Yankee Barn was just what we wanted. A few weeks later, we met with a designer, described our vision, and within a few months, we had our own custom plans in hand.

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In the beginning.

For most of my life, I was a renter. But not just any renter. My first rental was in a high-rise building in Hong Kong. I was 26 years old, and it was my first apartment ever. It had three bedrooms, a big kitchen, two bathrooms, and a living room that overlooked a schoolyard filled with flame trees and white-feathered cockatoos.

My second rental was a rambling two-bedroom apartment in Manhattan that I sublet from a friend of my father’s for a song. It was in a prewar building smack in the middle of town, with a gorgeous courtyard garden, and some of New York’s best restaurants just around the corner. Next came an apartment in Boston’s Beacon Hill, where I counted the Mayor and other local luminaries among my neighbors. Read the rest of this entry »

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